A Personal Message from Our Group
The thought of attempting to quit drinking while in Chile might be quite overwhelming.
For
one reason, this is a culture that prides itself on its wines and pisco
sours. Chileans love to celebrate. There is at least one holiday
every month and at least one asado every weekend. These celebrations
appear to revolve around alcohol. Bars serve up drinks which contain at
least fifty percent alcohol and for a couple of lucas one can buy a
large bottle of powerful liquor.
Secondly, Spanish is probably
your second or third language. It is difficult to locate AA information
here, perhaps more difficult to find the meetings, and nearly
impossible to understand what is being said if you don’t have a pretty
solid grasp of the language (the Chilean version of Spanish).
And there is very little information available to doctors and psychologists about how to treat the alcoholic.
But there is GOOD NEWS!
You have found our website, so you have found us. And our experience shows that it is possible to quit drinking while in Chile and it is possible to continue sobriety started somewhere else while living here.
We will share with you some of our suggestions:
Attend Meetings – We currently have 6 English-speaking meetings in Santiago. They are listed here on our website. We look forward to you becoming part of our group! There is also a link to the AA in Chile where you can find dozens of meetings in Spanish.
Consider getting a local sponsor – Having someone here in Santiago to help guide you through the steps and familiarize you with our meetings and traditions could be priceless.
Literature – At our meetings we have the Big Book, 12 Steps and 12 Traditions and Daily Reflections for sale. As well as many informational pamphlets for free.
Fellowship – Given that our English-speaking community of ex-problem drinkers is relatively small in Santiago, we recognize the importance of our personal connections. We often contact one another to do fun things and speak in English!
Is AA For You??
Twelve questions only you can answer
Copyright © 1973 by A.A. World Services, Inc.
IS A.A. FOR YOU?
Only you can decide whether you want to give A.A.a try —
whether you think it can help you.
We
who are in A.A. came because we finally gave up trying to control our
drinking. We still hated to admit that we could never drink safely. Then
we heard from other A.A. members that we were sick. (We thought so for
years!) We found out that many people suffered from the same feelings of
guilt and loneliness and hopelessness that we did. We found out that we
had these feelings because we had the disease of alcoholism.
We decided to try and face up to what alcohol had done to us. Here are some of the questions we tried to answer honestly.
If
we answered YES to four or more questions, we were in deep trouble with
our drinking. See how you do. Remember, there is no disgrace in facing
up to the fact that you have a problem.
Answer YES or NO to the following questions.
1 – Have you ever decided to stop drinking for a week or so, but only lasted for a couple of days?
Most
of us in A.A. made all kinds of promises to ourselves and to our
families. We could not keep them. Then we came to A.A. A.A. said: “Just
try not to drink today.” (If you do not drink today, you cannot get
drunk today.)
Yes No
2 – Do you wish people would mind their own business about your drinking– stop telling you what to do?
In
A.A. we do not tell anyone to do anything. We just talk about our own
drinking, the trouble we got into, and how we stopped. We will be glad
to help you, if you want us to.
Yes No
3 – Have you ever switched from one kind of drink to another in the hope that this would keep you from getting drunk?
We
tried all kinds of ways. We made our drinks weak. Or just drank beer.
Or we did not drink cocktails. Or only drank on weekends. You name it,
we tried it. But if we drank anything with alcohol in it, we usually got
drunk eventually.
Yes No
4 – Have you had to have an eye-opener upon awakening during the past year?
Do you need a drink to get started, or to stop shaking? This is a pretty sure sign that you are not drinking “socially.”
Yes No
5 – Do you envy people who can drink without getting into trouble?
At one time or another, most of us have wondered why we were not like most people, who really can take it or leave it.
Yes No
6 – Have you had problems connected with drinking during the past year?
Be
honest! Doctors say that if you have a problem with alcohol and keep on
drinking, it will get worse — never better. Eventually, you will die,
or end up in an institution for the rest of your life. The only hope is
to stop drinking.
Yes No
7 – Has your drinking caused trouble at home?
Before
we came into A.A., most of us said that it was the people or problems
at home that made us drink. We could not see that our drinking just made
everything worse. It never solved problems anywhere or anytime.
Yes No
8 – Do you ever try to get “extra” drinks at a party because you do not get enough?
Most
of us used to have a “few” before we started out if we thought it was
going to be that kind of party. And if drinks were not served fast
enough, we would go some place else to get more.
Yes No
9 – Do you tell yourself you can stop drinking any time you want to, even though you keep getting drunk when you don’t mean to?
Many
of us kidded ourselves into thinking that we drank because we wanted
to. After we came into A.A., we found out that once we started to drink,
we couldn’t stop.
Yes No
10 – Have you missed days of work or school because of drinking?
Many of us admit now that we “called in sick” lots of times when the truth was that we were hung-over or on a drunk.
Yes No
11 – Do you have “blackouts”?
A
“blackout” is when we have been drinking hours or days which we cannot
remember. When we came to A.A., we found out that this is a pretty sure
sign of alcoholic drinking.
Yes No
12 – Have you ever felt that your life would be better if you did not drink?
Many
of us started to drink because drinking made life seem better, at least
for a while. By the time we got into A.A., we felt trapped. We were
drinking to live and living to drink. We were sick and tired of being
sick and tired.
Yes No
Did you answer YES four or more
times? If so, you are probably in trouble with alcohol. Why do we say
this? Because thousands of people in A.A. have said so for many years.
They found out the truth about themselves — the hard way. But again,
only you can decide whether you think A.A. is for you. Try to keep an
open mind on the subject. If the answer is YES, we will be glad to show
you how we stopped drinking ourselves. Just call. A.A. does not promise
to solve your life’s problems. But we can show you how we are learning
to live without drinking “one day at a time.” We stay away from that
“first drink.” If there is no first one, there cannot be a tenth one.
And when we got rid of alcohol, we found that life became much more
manageable.
Here is the link to the official AA page with the pamphlet in pdf form Pamphlet